You can start a support group yourself. Rule: The group has no “leaders”. All the members own it. Meeting Format (Suggestion) Run a...
The principles in the book can be applied informally, but success is much higher if you formalize it. (My idea): To an extent, perhaps...
Making a commitment is like making a resolution. If you don’t stick to it, it’s useless. Don’t fear the mistakes you’ll make along...
Benefits of making a commitment: Liberating to admit your problems By committing publicly, you are more likely to follow through. Public...
Common problems: The struggler: Craves attention. Seeks turmoil and impossible situations. The conflict avoider: Downplays...
Learn to spar with your team: Sparring is where they can grill you - hold you accountable, but not in a way that causes injury. It is...
Take a week off in December to reassess everything. Use the Personal Success Wheel or make your own. The elements in the wheel are not...
Goal setting should be done be a team! Don’t insist on setting all your goals yourself. Let the team help you. His opinion: Goals may be...
Once identified, the lifeline needs to be eased into the process. The benefit of a long, slow dinner is that the clock stops. No rush to...
Sources of Lifelines Your confidant need not be someone close to you - sometimes those close to you are very poor at it. We have close...
His view: People spend too much time meticulously recycling vs living up to their talents and abilities. You get only one life. What...
Advice from his mentor: “What do you really want? Define your greatness. Then be convinced of it and start acting like it. Someone will...
Accountability is the 4th mindset. We all make efforts to change (e.g. corporate workshops, trainings, etc), but most efforts don’t have...
Realize that opening yourself to get feedback from others is risk free! They will have their perceptions of you regardless of your...
When introducing yourself, don’t just list accomplishments. Tell a story about your dreams, how you’re getting there, and what...
What do I have to offer others? There are two types of generosity currency: Universal and personal. Universal currency is very...
Everyone needs confidants for their professional work. People who care about your success and will not let you fail. Most people have...